I'm an aspiring femboy, I turn 18 in just a little over a week. I'm thin, tall, and fairly athletic, though by no means musclebound. But I really want to know how I can start getting curves, and dealing with facial angles especially. I think makeup may help with that, but I'm not sure where to start. Could you point me in the right direction, please? Thanks so much~!
Makeup can have many layers and intricacies. I’d say study makeup artists who do a lot of male to female work for movies and actors of sorts. (My best guess) Otherwise, all you need is a decent base and something to bring out your eyes a bit. (Just don’t go overboard at first)
Curves. Well. Guys usually don’t have ‘em. You gotta work with what you got. My personal strategy is; when I work out, I do low weight/high reps almost everywhere, but high weight/low reps for any exercise that works my thighs and bum to stack and build muscle. That’ll give you a little bit of a curvy placebo effect in the mirror.
Okayyyyyy, so yeah hiiiii x3, ummm do you remember the picture with your butt length sweater from kohls?? Well I've been looking for it EVERYWHERE but I cant find it anywhere :'( and i really want it!! So like did you get it in store or online?? Thanksssss love your blog btw :3
Got it in store, but I’m pretty sure they stopped selling them D:
And thanks dude!!!
I'm 5'6 and I identify as a femboy, but I'm not as slim as the others and I feel like people judge my pictures negativly from the other femboys because I'm as skinny as the other femboys. I really wanna slim down and I hate myself everytime I see the scale. Does my weight really matter? How should I slim down?
There’s nothing wrong with being on the chunky side as long as you’re healthfully active. People will judge people, it’s defensive human nature. Just ignore it. UNLESS you actually want to slim down for your own reasons. In which case, finding your daily calorie intake and reducing it by maybe 200 to 500 a day is a good way. Never do more as it will negatively affect your health. Never eat 3 hours before sleeping (makes a bigger difference than you’d think.) Hop outside and jog or just get some exercise in somewhere for an hour at least twice a week if you don’t already.
hi, I' m a femboy. I' m not self-confident and I' m shy (almost as a girl); I think I can't change any of this things becouse they are part of me, I' m really scared of being alone, becouse girls like femboys, but I have a lack of the classic male's self-confidence (which most of femboys had becouse usually they are more outgoing) I really don't know how to deal with it, I even asked a lesbian friend to find me a bisexual girlfriend... maybe she will like both my masculinity and femininity
First off, never say never. I’m more shy-erer than you I bet. You CAN change this part of you, and one day you will, because you’ll be tired of missing out and getting stepped on on account of not speaking up for yourself.
Secondly. There’s no need to be afraid of being “alone.” Most people are, but it’s a depressing and draining way to be. Learn to be a full, complete, happy person. Then find someone who is the same. If you walk into relationships leaning on the other person as you “other half,” it will crumble apart time after time.
Thirdly, cut the crap with the generalizations. Femboys are ALL WORLDS APART in terms personality, habits, confidence levels, physicality, social interaction, psyche, etc. The only similarity we share is that we all embrace our anima instead of shunning it.
Lastly, if you search to find acceptance in others your whole life rather than acceptance and confidence within yourself, you’ll never be able achieve a stronger, happier state of mind.
Best of luck dude,
Hi, I'm 175 cm/5'9, I know femboys comes in all shapes in sizes as eagle said, but I want to get shorter! I was like 10 cm(even more) shorter last year, I was tall as a girl pratically, but now I'm taller than other boys, it really gives me problems, I want a neutral height, I'm also a cosplayer and this height is too tall! can you please give me any tips? I know it's really stupid to say, but I don't care if I hurt my back or anything, I want to be shorter.
Dude, this is a really dangerous thing to consider. I’m 5-7 and would still like to be a tad shorter, but height is one of those things that you can’t control. I believe Eagle is quite tall himself. Around 6 feet if I remember correctly, and look how great he looks! Tall is just as good as short. They both have their ups and downs (no pun intended) Fashion models are all required to be quite tall, and most clothing fits better to a certain degree. Be proud of your hight! look down and see all those enlarged awe-struck pupils staring up at you!
This is a great step forward to non-gender norm clothing in the fashion industry; talking about expressing softer qualities shouldn’t be seen as a weakness for men. Great stuff. Giv’er a read.
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